Hello again...
A dear friend has come to us and asked us - perhaps "beg" is a better word - to consider going to Mayo Clinic, rather than staying with UW Madison. To tell you the truth, we had not even thought of Mayo's. We have a family member that works at Mayo Clinic - in the radiation department (right, Janis?) and I was able to talk with her about what questions to ask, treatment to expect, etc., from this radiation process. She also shed a little light on the idea of a second opinion with Mayo's. So we have gone ahead to set things up for a 2nd opinion, but one thing is for sure. We will not put off beginning the radiation in Madison to wait for another opinion at Mayo's. We believe time is very important right now and we're not wanting to delay any opportunity we have to get a start on all this. We believe right now that a bird in the hand is worth more than 2 in the bush!
Mayo's called today to get details and refer us on to a review person of some sort. They will review our case to see if they can be of any help and get back to us by Thursday - and make the appointment for a second opinion from there. We believe, right now anyway, that their timing is too far out to be of help to us. But, again, we won't jump to conclusions or "suppose" the timing is off until it proves out to be so.
We will continue to pursue open doors, keeping in mind that God is the Director of all of this, and also knowing that He is not the author of confusion, either. We want to use good sense in these matters without jeopardizing the outcome!
Thanks so much for your love & prayers - and phone calls of concern. Yesterday was a marvelous day - difficult, too, though, as we saw many of you face to face and greeted one another with hugs & tears. Speaking with "my girls" in Sunday School class was so very hard. Again, I see the sadness and concern on their faces and how I wish that this were not so. But it is - and walk on we must, though never alone. Thank you, dear God, for Your constant love and guidance along with dear family & friends You have placed around us!
May the Lord bless and keep you - each one!
Love to all,
Don & Deb
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Don & Deb, our dear friends, we go with you in prayer tomorrow to Madison, and pray also for the doctor and staff to know the best treatment possible. We surround you with much love, as you have always done for us and so many others. God is so amazing and wonderful, imagine that - He put someone you know in the Radiation dept. at Mayo's! WOW! Even if you decide to stay at UW Madison, just that you can have someone you know in the profession, to talk with about all these things! Your concern for all of us who love you both, shows of your compassion and strength, and the love you both have for Our Lord. May you continue to feel His love and comfort as you go on to Madison.
ReplyDeleteMuch love and hugs, Teri & Butch
PS - that's a big "no thanks, we'll pass" on the dandelion greens! Isn't that what fertilizer is for??
Thank you for updating us Deb...you are continually in our prayers each step of the way. I agree with you completely on the second opinion....go for it but don't delay! Our God is mighty and tenderly He will care for you! Thank you for sharing your journey and testimony of "Him who can do immeasurably more!"
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Dayla
Good morning Don & Deb.
ReplyDeleteThanks for the updates. We will be praying for safe travels to and from Madison today. May God comfort you and give you the strength that you need. We are so glad that our family friend suggested Mayo's and that Janis was able to help answer some of your questions. How wonderful to have options. God is an amazing god and we know He is in control of all things. We love you so much and are constantly praying for you during this extremely difficult time in your lives. Like Teri and Butch said, May you 'feel His love and comfort' today and always.
Love you brother & sister.
Doug & Donna
"This is the day that the Lord has made" and He is still on His throne. Please know that He and all who love you so much are right there with you today in spirit and love. Feel the warmth of His presence and ours as you take this next step on this journey of faith. We love you.
ReplyDeletePat and Larry
Dearest Deb,
ReplyDeleteI am in awe (I shouldn't be)of all the prayers
offered and the many friends that have come
to your side at this difficult time. You are,
and always have been, an extraordinary being
in helping others. Now it is our turn to be
there for you. We love you so very much.
We're praying ..............
Love, Mom and Dad
P.S. You haven't lost your sense of humor.
You're amazing.
Thanks for the updates. Glad to hear you are seeking a second opinion from Mayo's. You and Don are continually in our thoughts and prayers. Indeed, you are both amazing!
ReplyDeleteLove,
David & Ann
Debbie,
ReplyDeleteYou are on our minds day and night and in our prayers. We love you.
Ron and Cindy