Dear family & friends,
Thank you for your kind comments & constantly holding us up in prayer. The strength we have is from God and through your persistent prayers. Thank you for your part in our well-being.
I have made a couple of appointments for...wigs. Ugh. Not sure that losing all my hair will be part of this...most do, a few do not; but I want to be prepared. I was talking with a friend who went through chemo several years ago - and the wig thing, too - and we were talking about shaving the hair once it starts falling out. I'm not sure I can do that. And I could probably get really worked up about all this...you know, tears & such...but I think we can have some fun, too. Just think - no more "plucking" anything...eyebrows, etc. (you gals know all what the "etc." means...!) Maybe I can be ready in record time, too, with a wig, because I won't be spending time with a curling iron. And maybe I can get a different color wig for each day of the week! Maybe a different style, too!! Yes, I think we will have some fun! Don has never seen me without hair...how would he have??? So, I thought maybe I'd put pantyhose on my head to try out the "bald" thing for him...so he wouldn't be so shocked if it does happen. What if I'm in a wind storm & lose the crazy thing? You know, like a man with a major comb-over that gets lifted up in the wind...oh, my!! What if the wig gets twisted around and I don't know it...kind of like when you're skirt gets tucked in your waistband or something...will anyone tell me? Oh, I pray so!!
All these questions, doubts, anxieties...yet I'm reminded..."do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer & petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God." Here's the icing on the cake..."And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus." Hallelujah!! Amen!!
Thanks for listening...
Love you all,
Deb
Oh, Deb, we love you for so many reasons -- your sense of humor and ability to be "real" with us being among them! Planning ahead is good, but the bald look is "in" for some...tho' you'd have to be concerned about sunburns, or maybe your head isn't as round as you've always thought. Seriously, from time to time I have seen women who are bald and am never quite sure if it's the result of a health condition or a fashion statement.
ReplyDeleteWe continue to pray for you both and for the medical personnel involved on your behalf.
Much love,
Dick & Alma
Thank you so much for you still being you....even tho miles away, I can hear you telling your thoughts and I can also hear and see you laughing! I can just see Don when you come out sporting your new "pantyhose" do! We love you and continue to daily pray for you! May our Father give you strength for whatever comes your way tomorrow! Love, David and Laura
ReplyDeleteOh Mom, I know losing your hair will be difficult both emotionally and physically. You are such a beautiful christian wife, mother, grandma, woman especially through this journey. You will always be gorgeous!!!
ReplyDeleteAnd just think, no more Aqua Net!!
You and Dad should take your disguises on the road. You in your pantyhose and him with his glasses, mustache, and big nose mask.
Love you, Jenn
Oh Deb.....how loving of you to be concerned about Don instead of feeling sorry for yourself. It does speak loudly of how you live your life for the Lord and for others. I would have never thought of putting pantyhose on my head. I have to admit it did put a smile on my face. And never fear if you get caught in a wind storm and your wig gets twisted around I'll be sure to help you. :)
ReplyDeleteOur prayers are with you tomorrow as you talk to the doctors in Madison. May God give them the wisdom to know exactly the right thing to do.
Love you always,
Donna
Oh Deb so glad you have your sense of humor still. I can hear you laughing all the way here and throwing in a "snort" or two for good measure. We love you and pray for you and Don and family.
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