Monday, September 20, 2010

Good morning!
God tells us that even the hairs on our heads are all numbered (Matt. 10:30) and I'm here to tell you that I have about 2,000 fewer than I did a couple of weeks ago! It's amazing that so many can fall out and there's still some left! I woke up Sunday morning about 4:30 and realized my hair was coming out in wads, just wads of hair and I thought, well, this is the day that I can no longer try and make things work. So out came the scarf - no good. Out came a little cap I have - no good. Then I got out "Thelma Lou" (as Don calls her) and it was good! I felt very comfortable and rather excited, too, because I was now ready for church BEFORE Don!! The wig will take some getting used to...it kind of moves around a little bit. I told my Sunday School gals that it's kind of like your pantyhose rolling down only the opposite - the wig rolls up! We got into the car after church and I looked in the mirror (I know - vain, vain, vain!) and it had hooched back a little bit so I pulled it forward and Don said he'd noticed something wasn't right, but didn't know what. So we had a big discussion about signals, etc., to let me know when the thing isn't sitting just right. He said, too, that he'd walk behind me in a big wind storm in case the thing blows off. Oh boy. I am going Wednesday to have what's left on my head shaved off or at least trimmed way down. Those with cancer who have gone through this have said time and again "you'll know when the time is right" and the time is right. Hair is everywhere and enough already!

We would all agree that losing my hair is the least of my concerns. Yes, that is right. Our doctor says that I will be on chemo the rest of my life - if it works. Does that mean I won't ever have hair again? Can you imagine? It's a possibility, for sure. So, I'm going to get used to "Thelma Lou" and anytime you call and want to do breakfast or lunch, I'll be ready in a jiffy!!!

Love,
Deb

5 comments:

  1. Anonymous9/20/2010

    Perspective, priorities. . . hair or not?! While you have preferences, you realize that [woman] does not live by [hair] alone but by every thing that the Lord says.

    Your conversation with Don about "Thelma Lou" should be used as commentary for Proverbs 17:22 - A cheerful heart is good medicine,but a broken spirit saps a person’s strength.
    Love and prayers, Richard & Alma

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  2. Oh, Debbie, you are such a joy!
    You have a special gift to be able to find
    humor when you are facing such adversity
    at this time in your life.
    Our prayers and smiles are with you and Don.
    Love, Mom and Dad

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  3. David and Laura9/21/2010

    Did you hear me laughing out loud? I can just see you two in the car discussing "Thelma Lou" and then seeing Don walk behind you on a windy day! Pray the past week has been good, atleast for the most part, since it was your 'catch up' week. Always hear and see God's abiding peace and comfort when you write! Love you both!

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  4. Anonymous9/22/2010

    Debbie,
    Mar shared your blog site with me and I have been faithfully keeping up with your day to day writings.You have truly amazed me with your humor, writing, and faith throughout this journey. You are truly an inspiration! Please know you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
    Love,
    Joann Liskey

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  5. Deb, you looked "gorgeous" Sunday. Thelma Lou looked so natural that I thought you had just gotten a shorter "do". Your smile and happy spirit is contagious. I love you. Pat

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